So I’m not really asking for advice, but more wanting to start a conversation. I have a big 1st date coming up, as in he’s away so we can’t meet yet, but we’ve already gotten to know and like each other. (BTW, I would also not be wrong in calling this a hot date.)

The 1st choice is quite specific, as it’s the outfit I chose. Lately, I’ve been wearing a skirt for a first date, but I’ve picked a low cut top. Not too bad, but I usually would have worn a lacy tank underneath - not now. *evil smile* I even picked this out a while ago (before hinted familiarity). Don’t worry, I be keepin’ it classy. Anyway, with a sexy top, I want to wear pants (capris) as bottoms.

So here’s the poll, feel free to add your own unique choice, and/or to leave comments.

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Oh and wish me luck! Of course, I’m still not sure when the guy’s available for said date. Sighh.

I’m amusing myself with ridiculousness this afternoon. Labeling it and putting it away, not to worry over but placing it in a file for chuckles when needed. Why obsess over media icons - why force one’s body to the pain over footwear with spikes to the rear of the soles - why does a fashionista have to love shoes at all—or even follow a single rule of our couture culture - why not let go of any girlish trappings you never wanted? And yes! Hold on to one’s website when the site-mistress’s feelings toward the subject changes - why can’t a blog be living and growing as well the human behind it?

You know this is where I’ve been for a while (and it has nothing to do with most recent silence - that I think is busy-ness, health and different types of changes - irrelevant in the long-run, don’t worry) - BUT have I mentioned that I now, well, can’t stand shoes? Mm Hmm. This site started as purely (and fluffily) a shoe blog. With “candy” and star ratings (wow I purchased too many pairs if I was able to serially review them—but it was Zappos with their return policy..). I still could never have too many bags if I were true to my heart and had the magic powers to defy capitolism…. but shoes, well they’re necessary, and I wear them of course …. OK not all the time, I will hop in a car to my best friend’s house without ever changing from terry slippers! But yes, I even still INSIST I MUST wear CUTE shoes … and now living in Florida, it’s easier. I pretty much only wear/buy Easy Spirit sandals and wedges (yes, wedges my friends, their WEDGES are more comfortable than most flats!) and I don’t have to worry about widths. But god - the last time I bought shoes was after moving (and thus needing more of those sandals) last Fall. (And I only plan on one new pair in the recent future - I want sandals in pink!)

So yes, I’ve sworn off heels, and all designer shoes forever, and will only maintain a mild affection—purely aesthetic and on the Internet — it’s still fashion, it’s visual art.

And yet (here we are after an insanely long intro) I have a new blog among my favorites, and it’s a shoe blog. How writer, Katie, from Shoe La La, can call herself a shoeaholic when each of her posts are so wittily spot-on with their critiques of the silliness of this crazed-after accessory and are so “shamelessly” reasonable (”Oh no she di’in’t just type a synonym for “practical”? Oh girlfriend!), yes, reasonable. A woman - a shoeaholic woman. Dissing the glass slipper (even I love the glass slipper at heart - my name is a Cinderella pun, doi) was the post I first discovered thanks to Google images, with her words mimicking my feelings so deeply—and then recent posts—confessions on walking in high heels and sexy-exercising—graphic-edits and craft-name dropping while she unmasks the label “hobby” from the shopaholic disease (shushies!)—and more! *Thump-thump. Thump-thump.* She has my heart and sole.

Her bio confesses how her guilty pleasure developed, and assures, even furthers my blog crush (coining a term here, folks, pay attention) for her. I bet, for her, when the shoe fits she does buy it in every color and wears it happily, for she can appreciate the rarity. *Swoon.*

Yes, blog crush! I want to give her presents … like hosting where she can earn money from Google Adsense and a divine header logo and custom blog template…. (and not to mention the Google link juice I’m now gving.) I want to claim her with the roses of the Internet! And not just to gain benefit, but because I like her!

Oh but I know she’s too good for me - SEO be damned her blog titles are short and merely perfectly creative with not one keyword a necessity. Sighhh.. She smells so sweetly of integrity and perhaps even “not for profit”…

But as I continue to follow her posts, there will always be something. I don’t even know where she lives in the real world, but in my heart it works. We have that olive (insert any food here) love/hate thing. I will consume handbags and she will consume shoes. And I know we’d both wear pants. Mine will mostly be sweatpants and even pajama pants, whether it’s that same slippers-day or even walking up the street to my friend’s house. “Cause rules be damned when you don’t even pass anyone on the way - this is a new world of freedom in gender roles! (A world where a woman was a huge candidate for President, and although that goal’s ruled out again for a while longer, at least the pantsuits are gone. Roles/schmoles, a woman can’t deny her hips!)

Oh and speaking of pants - get your butt over there to read every last post of Shoe La La now. Whether you love shoes or hate them, too, whether your blog-sexuality is straight or what — I know you will love this blog as much as I do!

Just don’t like the blogger as much as I do - ok?

It’s a sandal! It’s a boot! It’s .. sasquatch? How these shoes by Etro don’t get less praise and more jabs than Uggs is beyond me. I didn’t pay them much mind until I read recent reports saying these … yes, these hair-like fringy tall shoes, are the IT shoe of Spring 2008.

Ummmm at least they conceal those missed patches??

Lewis Black and his gang won’t need to debate on this issue, because the two crusaders of the dark side have teamed up to make this shoe:

Croc Mary Janes (in purple here) with Hannah’s name on the foot strap and her likeness on the heel strap. Complete with holes, this is the brainless child of Satan and his young mistress.

Of course, how bad the Crocs’ guilt goes lies within the question: are Crocs okay on Kids? But that Miley Cyrus is certainly dastardly in her world domination (and demon-ination). It’s she I stand less!

What about you?

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These pants go way far too beyond skinny jeans. I barely recognize them as being denim (don’t they kind of resemble a blue heather fleece?) And then we get to those sneakers. Lindsay looks like her feet belong on a teenaged boy. That ensemble is an insult to her fantastic patchwork handbag.

By the way, I was out of the fashion game for a while, and now cannot find this bag anywhere after a day’s research - can you name it or the designer?

I’m not a trend follower of late, but the announcement of this one excited me for a very important reason. Seeing the hot, neon, sparkly, etc. pumps on the show What Not to Wear started my love for shoes, which brought on this blog, which introduced me to handbags, and ultimately that led to my handbag line I’m finally ready to start!

But back to the blog for now, and well the shoes..

Reports say bright shoes are in for Spring. Fun! Cute, and definite excitement in your steps.

I’d like to go over some “hot” (pun intended, as per usual) choices in different categories …

First, fashionista in different price points:

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DesignerElla says,

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